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I hate hype---but I hate it more when people keep helpful insights to themselves.

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What I have read so far in your e-book is astounding, thought-provoking, and just absolutely amazing! Your principles apply not only to raising kids, but in all areas of life. (What stands between you and the wind?)

I absolutely agree with your analysis of the 'Expert Syndrome'- most parents, (including myself') want a "quick fix" solution to their kid's problems.

Why have I never heard of this book before now? (Where were you when my kids were small?!) I totally understand that you have a family, and they should be first and foremost, but you should seriously consider TV appearances or seminars with this wisdom you have to impart.

-Viola W.

Frankly, if we had known this system when we first had children, we wouldn't feel the burden to tell you now --- we would just assume everyone knows this!

After 24 years as a pastor, 28 years in marriage, bringing up 5 children, and getting a doctorate in applied theology---I can tell you that almost no one can know these principles without re-learning them. Yes, we have drifted that far.

The Joy2Parent System is a combination of two courses we have developed to give you the the understanding and tools you need for a lifetime.

Based on the Book: The Absolute Quickest Way to Help Your Child Change (Featuring The 4 Magic Questions+)

If you think children are just 'as they are' and there is nothing you can do you don't know about biblical parenting, and...please do not listen to the video below. Thanks much. -FRL

This Announcement is going to shock the life out of you --- because it flatly says bunk to every idea you've ever had about how difficult it is to raise happy and obedient children. Biblical parenting changes the game! Yes, you are about to finally agree on what to do.

This Announcement says that if you could only liberate the exact same talent and insight and ability to parent well that you have tied up inside of you today--- then you could biblically parent and:

It's not your fault that you get stuck sometimes regarding what to do to help your child. Our whole society has been slopping out hogwash for years about what makes for good Christian (or any kind of) parenting and the end of temper tantrums. Most of these viewpoints ignore the tried-and-true biblical parenting principles prior generations knew as common sense. Things like "children first, always let the child decide," and "you know they're all different---its just a phase you need to get through," are all many steps away from biblical parenting. No one temper trantrums are a daily occurance.

All of these beliefs lead to one simple conclusion that makes common sense and biblical parenting nearly impossible. Society seems to conspire to tell you,

Hogwash (or whatever farm-friendly expression you like)! If you keep thinking there's nothing you can do, you'll keep getting the results you're getting.

Again, hogwash! But WAIT --- There's something else you're hearing that keeps your great talent for biblical parenting hidden inside:

There are Worse Kids Out There --- mine aren't too bad (even with temper tantrums)

More hogwash! Trying to comfort yourself about your children by comparing them to others is like trying to comfort yourself about your money by comparing yourself to the poor? We should help the poor, not use them for our comfort. Our kids should be the example, not blend into the herd. The Absolute Quickest Way is all about biblical parenting, common sense, and peace in your home.

News Flash: You already have everything you need. God gave you your children; don't you think He knows what you are capable of, and don't you know He has already given you the love and commonsense to parent well? You probably have a Bible laying around somewhere too. The one thing you need is the freedom and knowledge to tap into this natural ability to solve your own parenting challenges yourself (and with your partner). This is where knowing the secret of biblical parenting changes everything.

My Story: I am the father of 5 children and have been married for over 28 years. If you think we started with it all figured out you are mistaken. How about divorce, alcoholism, and bankruptcy stigmas as part of the 'training' to become an effective parent? Jody and I just came to a simple decision that we wanted to starte over; keeping the good our families gave us, but quickly beginning to add and entirely new perspective:

What if we can do something different to give our children an even better opportunity to be healthier and wiser than we sought to be as parents?

In the early 1990s I encountered a few older-and-wiser parents who gave me just the right nudge to wake up my instinct for biblical parenting. After applying these biblical principles successfully in workshops and counseling, I wrote down these insights and strategies in a book entitled The Absolute Quickest Way to Help Your Child Change: Click to See

The book did well, but I got busy with other things and allowed it to go out of print. I also bent a little to the criticism that I was "too young" and just "wait and see." Well, I've waited--- and I see 5 incredible kids who are doing exceptionally well because of learning the principles in biblical parenting--- we've never seen a tantrum, they all 5 slept through the night from six weeks old and onward (and yours probably can too...it isn't luck). The four boys are all (number 4 is 'almost') Eagle Scouts, and the girl is a friend to every soul she meets (almost) with over 500 people she knows by name in her cell phone.

Are our children perfect? Are we a perfect family? Hardly--- but Jody and I do know what it takes to use biblical parenting to raise kids; and by God's kindness, He has blessed us as we have applied His biblical parenting wisdom from the ages.

Now that the Secret of biblical parenting is proved out and the facts are clear --- we've decided to return to this material and add to it. As I've turned to writing and speaking full-time, we've been begged by those who have been helped by this information to get it back out there --- so here it is. Please keep reading to find out how you can benefit from the principles of biblical parenting. Yes, you are about to finally agree on what to do.

As a homeschooling mom of 6 children 11 and under, with one more joining us late this summer, let's just say that there are quite a few behaviors we see around here that need to change! I have often found myself despairing with the thought of not knowing how to train and help each of these unique children. I know that God has created them each for a specific purpose (if not only for my sanctification), but I am often anxious and carrying a heavy burden on my shoulders. This has been weighing heavy on me these past few months with the thought of adding another baby to the mix. I have spent much time crying out to the Lord for wisdom and help, as well as, many conversations with my husband about things that need to change so that we can focus more on our relationships with each child.

My husband and I are very aware that it is only God's grace that can change our children's hearts and we are praying to that end.Â We are also very aware of our desperate need for HIS help to train them up in the way that they EACH should go.

A few weeks ago I was introduced to Fred Lybrand through a "random" email about his writing course. After purchasing and beginning to use it I got an email from him about his Parenting Course. Since then, I now own the Parenting Course and have just finished listening to it. I can honestly say that it is a specific answer to my prayers!Â God is so kind! He has given me a clear way to move forward that is so biblical and practical. His "Four Magic Questions" to apply to every situation, as well as the EI=>SI and SI=>IE is so true and it is enabling me to see my parenting with new understanding.

I have already begun to apply these principles with my children a little bit, but at this point the Lord is helping me to think differently about these behaviors that I'm seeing that need to change. I'm more aware now that many of the negative behaviors are a direct result of our parenting. I'm working at applying the "Four Magic Questions" and look forward to introducing the principles more and more in the months and years to come.

My husband and I are going to be listening to the Parenting Course together over the next week while we are driving on vacation and I am hopeful that this is truly going to revolutionize our parenting.Â More testimony to come as we begin to apply the teaching...

Thank you, Fred!

Mindy M.

I can almost guarantee strangers will come up to you and compliment your children right to your face. What an amazing blessing! You see, it doesn't take much in the way of good behavior for it to be noticed. The wild thing is that most people are genuinely cheering for you because they so seldom see decent and well-behaved children.

--You can have years of effective Christian parenting without the pain of figuring it out on your own--

Because we've condensed 23+ years of lessons learned through the failures and successes of raising our own children into a powerful set of principles

--You can know that our material will help your child change regardless of your specific problems or situation--

Because our parenting advice teaches a clever way of thinking about raising children instead of a complex set of rules.

--You'll be receiving down to earth, practical advice on child raising which you can understand and apply immediately---

Because in our Christian parenting advice we are speaking to you as one parent to another; not as a self-promoted expert.

--You will experience the joy and confidence in raising children you've been missing---

Because our biblical parenting advice teaches you to raise children with common sense

--You can wisely parent in all the various circumstances life throws your way---

Because our Christian parenting advice empowers you to be your own expert on raising children

--You can change your child's behavior and help them become the well behaved son or daughter you desire them to be---

Because our biblical parenting advice teaches you how to understand your child's behavior

Joy2Parent Kidsis a combination of both an eBook to study, and Audio Lessons (mp3) you can listen to repeatedly as you sit, run, or ride...no need to be glued to a monitor or a television to watch a talking head. You and your spouse can discuss the principles of biblical parenting while driving on vacations (it's great for the kids to listen as well). The course on raising children can be repeated, which further guarantees your success as a parent. Repeating a course gets the biblical parenting principles you need to help your child change "into your bones." Yes, you are about to finally agree on what to do.

The following chapter titles will give you a good idea of The Absolute Quickest Way to Help Your Child Change's value---

(Part 1) Questions and Answers (real life problems with real life solutions)

(Part 2) Questions and Answers (real life problems with real life solutions)

Don't take my word for it.

Listen to what others say.

Positive reinforcement has always worked, but this book shows you specifics of how to use that tool. It teaches the parent a fair yet extremely effective way to train your child to behave.

The concept is simple and easy and it works so quickly because of those things. A common sense tool for those of us who feel they've lost theirs! A+++! Positive reinforcement has always worked, but this book shows you specifics of how to use that tool. It teaches the parent a fair yet extremely effective way to train your child to behave.

-Amazon customer review

Fred Lybrand hits the nail on the head with his common sense approach to parenting. I read the book in one (long) sitting and have benefited greatly from the tips he offers. The complete approach to parenting is fresh and helpful.

My own parenting skills are better now and my relationship with my kids is stronger. My husband even read the book and raves.

-Amazon customer review

I did listen to and read the ebook you sent and I have to say that it really was eye-opening. It made me look at my children's behaviors in a whole new way and gave me some direction as to how (with the Lord's help) I can begin to encourage good behavior.

It seems so simple, and yet for some reason I had never heard it all spelled out so clearly...so obvious! Thank for the parenting course. It will be such a blessing to our family in the days and years ahead.

In Christ,
Sheri G.

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Warning: Do NOT buy any information on raising children unless it meets the following 6 criteria

There is a lot of confusion surrounding our field of raising children. I want to give you 6 criteria, or elements, you absolutely-positively must have in any solution you obtain:

Any biblical parenting advice must teach that the parent has the advantage over the child, and furthermore why this matters.

Any Chrisian parenting advice must teach that behaviors are not removed so much as replaced.

Any biblical parenting advice must understand that there is always a reason for their child's behavior.

Any Christian parenting advice must have a common sense approach to raising children. Special theories must be avoided.

Any biblical parenting advice on raising children must include directions to the right questions needed for effectively raising children.

Any Christian parenting advice must explain the importance of marriage (and divorce) as an impact factor on behavior.

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Who Else Wants to Show Teens Exactly How to Solve Their Problems and Enjoy Their Families?

Joy2Parent for Teens gives you everything you need to know in order to become the parent you long to be. You receive digital downloads of the entire 130pg ebook with searchable and hyper linked text, an audio reading of the book for you to listen to while driving, cleaning the house, etc. and additionally several bonus lessons fully of revolutionary biblical parenting tips.

Joy2Parent for Teens --- This essential guide will give you the parenting skills and tools to understand your teen. The fighting will stop and your relationship will improve. The Absolute Quickest Way to Help Your Teen Change makes The Absolute Quickest Way to Help Your Child Change a complete package covering all aspects of parenting, from the time they're born until they leave the house.

Did you know there is an exact 4 step process that will lead you to calmly figure out how to avoid the problems that keep showing up again and again with your teen?

Also...there is a simple method for setting up 'how things work around here' so that your teen will not complain as they do what you request for the family to run well?

This stuff is truly amazing, but we can't really 'explain it' perfectly in this letter. What we can tell you is that we are going to show you the exact 4 steps to go through when your teen 'goofs up' so that you are really training him to become an effective adult.

Next, we show you a simple and powerful process for setting up any system or process in your home. For us, it meant the conflict between Mom and the 3 teenaged sons (concerning getting the chores done daily) COMPLETELY disappeared. In fact, you'll learn our biblical parenting system and are free to copy it if you don't want to design your own.

What is the 'know how' to teach your teens to solve their own problems worth?

What can you save on counseling once you know the secrets a good counselor will teach you?

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I enjoyed reading your book... actually, I read it in one evening! I found that you brought common sense back into parenting. You showed us how to be creative and confident with our children.

Thanks,

Karen S.

I very much enjoyed the book and the advice offered. I loved the four questions and think that is a stroke of genius for parents. The questions really help you define not just the problem but the solution, which is what most parents really need help with. It's easy to know we have a problem with child A in this area but most parenting books don't offer practical solutions so I do believe your book will be a blessing to all parents Christian or not.

In Christ,
Sheri D.

What does this cost? Well, if it is FREE I can't afford to keep writing and offering this material, but if it is to costly you can't get it. So, here's the deal

What it's worth: $397.00 (you can go to a counselor for around $100 an hour...but that's just four sessions).

[From a ministry and marketing point of view, it is far more worthwhile to have people sharing with others what they have benefitted from than seeing an ad on google or facebook...I'm going to see what offering this material at this price does...and please keep in mind, every purchase helps get this information out to others who are hoping to make a difference in this world through their parenting]

Here is the exact explanation of the process we used (making use of all the principles in Joy2Parent Kids & Teens) to see two brothers come to peace. It's yours free!

How to see your children do what is asked without any debate, questions, or confusion. Here is the process we used to get the kids to quit neglecting to do what they were asked to to (especially by their Mother!).

You have a license to use this parenting material in a small group setting. Print what you want and play the audios you wish to for your group. If they purchase their own copy they can review, lead their own group, and advance the cause.

If you found this congrats...it isn't yet fully live...so, the actual buy button is for under 38 dollars...I left it live for your good fortune. It will change in a day or two!

ABSOLUTE GUARANTEE: It is really straightforward...try our course for 60 days; if you simply listen to the material and it doesn't give you a fresh hope and clarity for what you are up to in your marriage and parenting...we'll give you a full refund, no questions asked. This material will never be offered below this price.

If you decide to refund the program, you can keep The Absolute Quickest Way to Help Your Child Change eBook. It's yours for giving the course a try...just as a thank you.

I'm almost half-way through the book (Absolute Quickest To Help Your Child Change...). Unbelievably right on!!! Just like Preaching on Your Feet!!!! What I've received so far will help me personally (age 62) as so much of it speaks directly to my present situation (there's still so much within me that I want to do)!??? My kids are 33 and 31, and Susan and I now have 4 grandchildren (hopefully, more on the way). My question is “may I let my children know about this offer? I think they would devour your material. Or can they get the earlier deal? I'll wait to hear from you.

-Butch S.

For a few days I'm going to make a special offer available... ~~$79.95~~ $37.00

HERE'S THE CATCH: I want you to promise to send 5 people to this website if (AND ONLY IF) you find this material as amazingly helpful. It's just a promise you make to yourself by clicking the BUY NOW button below:

CAUTION: If your family system is radically dysfunctional the Joy2Parent System will still help you; however, great problems need 'hands on help'---please go seek additional help from a recommended church or counselor nearby.

*** Yes, this site is constantly being improved---suggestions (and patience) are appreciated ***

Dr. & Mrs. Lybrand (married 28 years) have 5 children they've used the biblical parenting principles of Joy2Parent to help them homeschool them all the way to college

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Our two sons fought almost every day until we put this on the refridgerator.

Dr. & Mrs. Lybrand (married 28 years) have 5 children they've used the biblical parenting principles of Joy2Parent to help them homeschool them all the way to college

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Our two sons fought almost every day until we put this on the refridgerator.

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